“Honey, you’ve earned a spanking tonight. You’ve been very naughty.” Do words like that cause your body to flush with arousal? Don’t worry – you’re not alone!
Impact play is a sexual practice where one person is struck by another person for the sexual gratification of either or both parties. It is a form of BDSM.
Spanking, flogging, caning, cropping, and paddling are all activities that are considered impact play. The difference lies in the implement chosen to deliver the impact. For some the preferred method of “impact play” is to cause deep tissue bruising, but this is more dangerous than other forms of impact play and requires more practice to master.
In all impact play, safety is of the utmost importance. It is common practice to agree upon a safe word before entering into impact play with a partner. This type of play requires participants to start slowly and become aware of their boundaries as well as master safe methods of engaging with their partner. Certain parts of the body are suitable for impact play while others are not. Participants should be aware of this before engaging in impact play.
While any person’s hand can act as the perfect spanking implement, some creative, kinky people have given us a world of toys to experiment with. Each provides an entirely different experience for the receiver too.
The magic of impact toys is that they can each provide a unique sensation – and they look pretty badass in hand! Each impact toy also requires its own skill set to weild. With any kinky activity, don’t forget to agree on a safeword.
There is a open door forum so you can speak about your experiences. Inspire Us!
If you let us know a little bit about you, we can connect via email to brainstorm some creative opportunities as well as share dialogue of our experiences.